The Set Up

I hate being set up. It just really bothers me for some reason. Maybe it's because I feel like people feel sorry for me because I’m single, or it makes me feel like I’m a loser because I can't find anyone on my own, whatever it is, I don’t like it.

For example, my cousin always makes comments about me being single and not giving people a chance. In my defense, my cousin lives 2 states away and when I go to visit, I want to spend time with my family, not his friends. And he really has never tried to go out of his way to introduce me to anyone. Anyways, he called me one day and told me about this friend of his, we’ll call him “Matt”. When I asked if Matt was attractive, his response was, “he has a great personality.” Not a good start. So he tells me to look up Matt’s facebook. I look at his facebook and he seems like a decent guy, not really my type but whatever. A few weeks later Matt tried to add me as his friend on facebook. At first I didn’t really want to add him. I don’t know this guy and he didn’t send me a message or anything saying who he is, but I knew if I didn’t add him I’d hear it from my cousin. So I accept his friendship and the guy never attempts to even talk to me. After about a month I decided to delete him, I find it kind of creepy to friend someone who doesn’t even know me or make an attempt to know me. He obviously was not that interested in me.

Then it happened again today. A friend of a friend commented on my facebook to send her a text. I text this girl, whom I rarely talk to, and she tells me how her brother in law saw my picture on facebook and was interested. A few days before this, this girls brother told me he wanted to hook me up with the same guy..and his wife said NO immediately… coincidence? I think not. So I respond with who is he? Do I know him? She tells me he’s a nice guy and offers to send me a picture. I decline because I think its awkward for her to send me a random pic of this guy who is sitting next to her. So I tell her he can go ahead and add me on facebook if he wants to get to know me…I figure this is the easiest way of getting out of having to give him my number. So the guy just added me on facebook. He has made no attempt to say hello to me. And I don’t really think he is my type anyways. He’s 6 years older than me and posts pictures of his animals on facebook. I think the thing that bothers me the most about this incident is this girl knows nothing about me. I wouldn’t mind so much if my sister or one of my best friends who knows me really well would try to set me up with someone. How does this girl who knows nothing about me, other than who my family is, know what kind of guy would be good for me?!?

I don’t have time for guys who are too chicken to talk to me. Facebook is ruining my life. This is exhausting.

Song of the day: One Love by the Glee Cast. I got some new Glee CDs for Christmas and this song is one of my faves off the soundtrack!

Update: Guy from story #2 just facebook messaged me...further proving why people who don't know me should not set me up. Here is his message:
"Ok.. So my sister in law said you were a single girl..haha. I would like to meet and hang out. Lets go out somewhere and have some fun!!! What do you think?

Oh.. Lets save the background information about ourselves for later. I'll just say one thing about myself. Im very driven and focused in my life."

I rest my case.